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patrick butler's avatar

One of, if not the most insighful essay on the topic in recent times. Thank you

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Rebekah's avatar

Thanks for a great article. It reminds me a bit of the findings of the social linguist Deborah Tannen, who went on to get a PhD and the difference between the way men and women talk and communicate from Kindergarten, after going through a painful divorce that she herself suggested may have been preventable if she had known what she knows now. One of her main points is that women generally function with community and the rapport sharing -- exclusion/inclusion is the dominating organizational structure. Men function by hierarchy. 5 year olds are already working on this. Had me thinking that a lot of things that have changed in our society in recent years is a shift from male-dominated social mores to female dominated social mores (especially in the public policing of speech) and how there are ways that this is not sustainable.

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